Infidelity is a betrayal that is hard to heal. Many people ask me how to know if a spouse is cheating. Ten signs of cheating may back up your hunch.Here are some things to look for:
1. Your spouse often steps outside to talk on the phone.
2. Your sex life frequency has changes. There is little kissing or foreplay.
3. "I love you" is seldom spoken.
4. Your spouse becomes more attentive than usual. It may be an attempt to cope with guilty feelings.
5. Your spouse is paying more attention to his, or her, appearance.
6. Your spouse is working longer hours.
7. Your spouse is more critical of you and even accuses YOU of cheating.
8. Your spouse acts bored with you.
9. Your spouse has higher than usual credit card expenses.
10. Your spouse has changes in routine - leaving earlier in the morning or arriving home later than usual.
Do keep in mind that one or two of these behaviors may not indicate anything of concern. If there are many, however, that are frequent and long lasting, professional help is called for. You may contact me at any time for individual or marital con